[BUILD] Use fmt-header instead of libfmt (#1791)

[ROCm/rccl commit: 6b4ad0fd74]

projects/rccl/src/include/proxy_trace/proxy_trace.h

@@ -10,6 +10,9 @@
 #include <chrono>
 #include <cstdint>
 #include <deque>
+#ifndef FMT_HEADER_ONLY
+#define FMT_HEADER_ONLY 1
+#endif
 #include <fmt/format.h>
 #include <memory>
 #include <unordered_map>