exit gotcha + remove DelayedInit state + rocm-smi + cleanup (#110)

* exit gotcha + remove DelayedInit state + cleanup

- exit gotcha which wraps exit, quick_exit, abort
- minor refactor of mpi gotchas
- removed some redundant code in omnitrace_finalized_hidden
- exclude instrumenting functions starting with dlopen and dlsym
- exclude instrumenting exit, quick_exit, and abort functions
- update timemory submodule with support for new gotcha_invoker with (gotcha_data, <function pointer>, args...)

* Improved rocm_smi error handling

source/lib/omnitrace/library/components/pthread_mutex_gotcha.cpp

@@ -217,8 +217,8 @@ pthread_mutex_gotcha::operator()(uintptr_t&& _id, const comp::gotcha_data& _data
             _id, get_hashes().at(_data.index), _depth);
     }
 
-    return _ret;
     tim::consume_parameters(_id, _cid, _parent_cid, _depth, _ts);
+    return _ret;
 }
 
 int