Fix MIOpen build failure

This is charrypick of b5a50ec9cf
and https://github.com/ROCm-Developer-Tools/HIP/pull/2009

Fix cmake config file

Removed cmake target files under packaging directory.

Merged cmake config .in files for HIP-Clang and HCC as one.

Use cmake generated target files in both install and packaging.

This makes cmake config file consistent for make install and
make package.

Let device side malloc/free return nullptr and trap

Change-Id: I448f3ea2d4934648089bad371debc203f895cba6


[ROCm/hip commit: 88304c15e6]

projects/hip/tests/src/deviceLib/hipDeviceMalloc.cpp

@@ -17,8 +17,8 @@ OUT OF OR INN CONNECTION WITH THE SOFTWARE OR THE USE OR OTHER DEALINGS IN
 THE SOFTWARE.
 */
 /* HIT_START
- * BUILD: %t %s NVCC_OPTIONS -std=c++11
- * TEST: %t EXCLUDE_HIP_PLATFORM nvcc
+ * BUILD: %t %s NVCC_OPTIONS -std=c++11 EXCLUDE_HIP_PLATFORM all
+ * TEST: %t EXCLUDE_HIP_PLATFORM all
  * HIT_END
  */
 #include "test_common.h"