Add missing header in alloc.h (#2086)

[ROCm/rccl commit: 892d258319]

projects/rccl/src/include/alloc.h

@@ -17,7 +17,7 @@
 #include <unistd.h>
 #include <stdlib.h>
 #include <string.h>
-#include <map>
+#include <unordered_map>
 #include "rccl_vars.h"
 
 #if CUDART_VERSION >= 11030